As designed by GOD, your virginity is the bed rock of your destiny. It is your spiritual beauty. It carries the star, potential and talent which GOD created with you to make you unique.
It is the star in your sky. Please do not pollute your destiny.The world is waiting for your star to shine!
Your body is the temple of GOD. Yeah, as HIS sons and daughters, HE lives in us. You are the carrier of GOD’s presence. The more reason you have to make your body sanctified (Holy).
Let me tell you the truth, your curiosity about sex and the way your body feels is normal. However, all you need to do is to condition your mind & calm your desires and flee from every thing that provokes your sexual desire. 1 Corinthians 6:18 says:
“Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body.”
More importantly is that you do not let temptation catch up with you. To be tempted is not a sin but falling into it, is a sin.
Is the environment you find yourself so sexual, the channels on the Tv are showing nude contents? you have girls in the neighborhood dressing almost nude? your colleagues in the college are talking about how they engage in sex, your staff members have many concubines?
The truth is that the world is full of temptation of one thing or the other. So, what can you do?
What you can do: Be of good courage; Be careful not to fall off;
Call on the HOLY SPIRIT to help you; Guide your heart with the Words of GOD; Begin to communicate to GOD in spirit (Singing, Meditating the Word and Praying). 1 Corinthians 10:13 says:
“No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. GOD is faithful, and HE will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation HE will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.”
Abstaining from pre-marital sex is so essential that, it is one of the attributes of a true son or daughter of GOD. A true child does the will of the Father.
1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 says:
“For this is the will of GOD, your sanctification: that you abstain from sexual immorality; that each one of you know how to control his own body in Holiness and honor, not in the passion of lust like the gentiles who do not know GOD”