ESSENTIALITY OF ABSTINENCE FROM PRE-MARITAL SEX

As designed by GOD, your virginity is the bed rock of your destiny. It is your spiritual beauty. It carries the star, potential and talent which GOD created with you to make you unique.
It is the star in your sky. Please do not pollute your destiny.The world is waiting for your star to shine!
Your body is the temple of GOD. Yeah, as HIS sons and daughters, HE lives in us. You are the carrier of GOD’s presence. The more reason you have to make your body sanctified (Holy).

Let me tell you the truth, your curiosity about sex and the way your body feels is normal. However, all you need to do is to condition your mind & calm your desires and flee from every thing that provokes your sexual desire. 1 Corinthians 6:18 says:

“Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body.”

More importantly is that you do not let temptation catch up with you. To be tempted is not a sin but falling into it, is a sin.

Is the environment you find yourself so sexual, the channels on the Tv are showing nude contents? you have girls in the neighborhood dressing almost nude? your colleagues in the college are talking about how they engage in sex, your staff members have many concubines?
The truth is that the world is full of temptation of one thing or the other. So, what can you do?
What you can do: Be of good courage; Be careful not to fall off;
Call on the HOLY SPIRIT to help you; Guide your heart with the Words of GOD; Begin to communicate to GOD in spirit (Singing, Meditating the Word and Praying). 1 Corinthians 10:13 says:

“No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. GOD is faithful, and HE will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation HE will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.”

Abstaining from pre-marital sex is so essential that, it is one of the attributes of a true son or daughter of GOD. A true child does the will of the Father.

1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 says:

“For this is the will of GOD, your sanctification: that you abstain from sexual immorality; that each one of you know how to control his own body in Holiness and honor, not in the passion of lust like the gentiles who do not know GOD”

♥PG

RED FLAG OF DATING FOR SINGLE SISTERS.

it can be difficult to be clear-headed in a dating relationship.  It is easy to see only the positive in the other person and completely ignore any warning signs.  Optimism for a relationship can cloud judgment.

It would be foolish to date someone and not even consider the possible outcomes.  Not only would it be foolish, but downright selfish.  While you do not have to commit to marrying this person right away, you should realize thatany guy-girl relationship you begin has the potential to end in marriage.

If there is always that possibility, then you must ask yourself whether this person has the qualities you will need in a husband.  You are not being selfish in asking that question.  It is important that you do.  That is why it is important to consider some warning signs you will look for while dating someone.  Watch out for the following red flags.

Is he having a relationship with Christ?

If you desire to have a marriage relationship built on Scripture, you will want to marry a man who will be a strong spiritual leader to you and your future family.

Ask yourself these questions:  How strong is his relationship with Jesus Christ?  Is he interested in growing spiritually?  How passionate is he about reading God’s Word, prayer, and fellowship with other believers in a biblically solid church?  Is he servant-hearted?  Are you spiritually stronger than he is?  Your spiritual maturity may result in frustration and leadership struggles if he is not as strong as you in his relationship with God.

Second, does he care about your spiritual growth?  Ultimately, your spiritual condition is up to you and you alone.  However, in Ephesians Paul compares a husband’s role toward his wife with that of Christ’s role toward His Bride, the Church, “Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, the she might be holy and without blemish,” (Ephesians 5:25-27, emphasis mine).

Christ’s role and a husband’s role do differ because only Christ alone can truly cleanse us.  However, a husband is responsible to lead his wife in sanctification, as this verse explains with the imagery of Christ and His bride.  If a man cannot do that, he is not ready to be a husband.  And if he is not ready to be a husband, dating him could only have a sorrowful outcome.

Is he depending on you?.

Marriage is a covenantal bond between a man and a woman where there is dependence—to a certain extent.  If you are dating a man who expects you to be everything to him and always make him happy, you both are in for a harsh awakening after the honeymoon ends.  You are both sinners and you will sin against each other.  While you do not want that to happen, it is reality. You will disappoint each other, not on purpose, but you will.  You cannot meet his every need.  To try to is foolish. Also, if he wants you to meet all his needs, that is close to idolatry (Exodus 20:3, 4).  Only God can truly satisfy a person’s soul.

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RELATIONSHIP TIPS FOR UMMARRIED

1. Sleeping alone is better than sharing your BED with someone who shares a BED with someone else when you are not around…!

2. Cheating does not mean you have to kiss, meet or have sex with a third party. Once you find yourself deleting texts and e-mails so
that your partner will not see them, you are already there.

3. If a man is crazy about you, pray he does not get well, if he is getting well, know that another woman is giving him some tablets.

4. First love may not die, but true love can bury it.

5. If you still believe “LOVE IS BLIND” then I know for sure MARRIAGE WILL OPEN IT FOR YOU.

6. A woman’s beautiful face attracts a flirt; A woman’s beautiful heart attracts a lover; A woman’s beautiful character attracts a man.

7. Never you fall in love because you are lonely, fall in love because you are ready.

8. A blessed water is better than a cursed fried rice. A Godly poor man is far much better than an angry rich man in marriage.

9. I will rather have you stay in your father’s house that you are sure of than pack into a man’s house you are not sure of.

10. Most men base their capacity of manhood and their abilities to fertilize ovaries and produce children. Any man can impregnate a
woman. The real deal is HOW MANY MEN CAN BE THE FATHER TO THEIR CHILDREN, not promoters of ABORTION?

11. HOLY Wives do not just speak in tongues they MANAGE their homes, make SUPER meals, raise GODLY kids, and finally, they
bring out the KING in their man.

12. When you tend to your garden diligently you will be the one to reap the fruit of the vine hereof.

13. You can say “sorry” a million times, say ” I love you” as much as you want, say whatever you want, but if you are not going to prove that the things you say are true, then do not say anything at all. Because if you cannot show it, your words do not mean a thing.

14. Never you lie in order to satisfy somebody for a moment because the pain that you cause them in the future can last them for a lifetime…..

15. When ladies learn to close their laps young men will learn to zip up.

Think right

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